With maybe half of dommes not accepting things like Amazon gift cards for session deposits, anyone have advice or experience using CashApp or Venmo, but not with a bank account? I saw on CashApp's site that you can go to some retailers to reload your cashapp, but never did it and got away from using it for session deposits just due to my work and not wanting a paper trail. I like when I can go into a store and buy an Amazon Giftcard with cash and send the code.

I do see that some Dommes use Wishtender, but if you search what is WishTender used for, it's only something I'd want to so with a prepaid card, so is that possible without having to register it to your name?

Anyone have any good methods to help keep things not easily connected financially and still able to make deposits for most Dommes?

You do not have to link your bank account to your cashapp

That would be great. I have seen some videos about possibly needing a Cash Card, which seems like they'd mail a debit card. Is it possible to add funds without this card? As in basically just scanning an in app barcode in store? Preferably at a self checkout.

You can have an account without the card, so I ASSUME but not 100% theres a qr scan in the app you can use at stores. I'd call to ask

Unfortunately I do not have an answer to your question and I am in the same boat when it comes to making deposits as you are. It is very difficult if the Domme does not accept gift cards. I have used Venmo for stuff because with my bank the person being paid does not show up on the online banking info but I still am hesitant to use it often or for larger amounts. Cash App shows up as cash app and shows the payee so I won’t use that. I would guess every bank is different too. I’ve posted about this before. I’ve just accepted that in 2023 everything is viewable online somewhere so it’s much more difficult to hide stuff than it was in the past.

I'm surprised when a Domme's standard protocol is that she will accept deposits with gift cards. My Goddess, how does she do it??

I don't know if it occurred to you gentlemen but we cannot pay our bills with gift cards. And when you do something for a living, as opposed to between your classes in college or as a part-time gig to on the weekends to supplement your main gig, session tributes may be your Domme's total income.

I'd love, though, if I could send Amazon gift cards to my mortgage company and they'd be like, "Hey, thanks! You're covered for the next three months!"

When it comes to the concern with "paper trails", your ability to avoid this depend on what you mean by "trail".

I'm not giving advice to help you be a dick to your significant other, but if in some other hypothetical scenario you must keep this under wraps, you may not be able to avoid a "trail" at all. Gift cards leave a "trail". Money orders leave a "trail". Withdrawals from your bank account leave a "trail".

As much as I understand that people have privacy needs, and sometimes want to try to keep their transactions with me as "trail"-free as possible, I also do not want to be expected to shoulder the burden of someone's secret. This is not my interest or responsibility. I will always uphold your confidentiality but if you insist on paying a chunk of my wages with a gift card when I need compensation for my work to cover my electric bill then I'm afraid we're at am impasse.

Is this new? How would we pay out in this case? Or do you need a bank account attached to pay out?

I was banned from Cash about 6 years ago so I figured that unless I opened a new bank account with a different name I would not be using this processor.

What do you think the possibilities that the prodom scene goes back to good ol' money orders and po boxes? Buffalo's mention of gift cards is also a good one. It is just a deposit and not the entire session fee. I'm long retired from sessions and know everyone wants to do things on their phone as quickly and easily as possible. But, the old fashion way worked just fine for decades.

Some of us have always done that. I offer money orders for people who don't want to pay anything electronically.



I suppose a Domme felt all her pre-production was worth a lousy 10 bux then sure take a gift card. My deposits are 50%. That might mean like a $1,000 gift card. Hahahahahahah! No.

Seriously, how do you explain $500 in cash withdrawals to a suspicious person?