It's definitely not unusual. Most subs bring their own devices, as not every Mistress has extras around for session wear and sizing is often an issue.

CBT and ballbusting in a device are fine, although the Mistress may have to be a little more careful in order to avoid damage, and obviously limited by the parts of your genitals she can access. I would recommend against full kicks, but squeezing/pinching/whartenbergs will all be fine.

You have discovered an issue with chastity devices, which is that they are kinda difficult to get on. There's a reason they don't show that part in porn! It's best to put on the device before the session. If that's not possible you're just gonna have to accept that the first 15 or so minutes of the session are going to be about getting you into the device, and the experience will likely be deliberately unsexy because the devices are harder to put on if you're aroused.

All good points. My only experience was kind of frustrating. Getting it on involved a lot of frigging around, cold compresses and eventually an ice pack. Seemed to waste a lot of session time for something that wasn't a huge turn on for me in the first place.....although I did enjoy the idea of the Domme having so much control.

That being said, the idea of being put in one with sharp spikes and then the Domme doing a lot of teasing is intriguing

I've definitely chattered away about my cat in order to get a boner down and into a device. Effective enough, but I do prefer when the sub comes in already locked. The process of putting on a chastity device is time-consuming and not much fun on my end either.

I agree that trying to put a chastity device on is an awkward experience, especially if it's eating into session time. I wanted to experience a night sleeping with a cock cage on. I scheduled an early evening two hour session with Ava St. Marks and at the end of the session she was able to easily slip the cock cage on with no problems. Ava took the key, sealed in an envelope, wrote her name over the sealed section and gave the envelope to me with instructions to return in the late morning with the envelope still sealed for another two hour session. I had the key so if for some reason I HAD to take it off I could, but I enjoyed having it on so I didn't use the key.

Since the device was already on, we were able to immediately start the session. Eventually she said it was "in the way" when she wanted to move on to the CBT chair for some exquisite CBT. By splitting the session into 2 separate 2 hour experiences, and placing the device on at the end of the first session, I was able to experience a night in a chastity device without the awkwardness of trying to put the thing on with a raging hard on. While Ava has sine retired, I am very grateful to her for the experience and both sessions are lifetime memories for me

This is a really cool idea. I travel for work a lot and often session while out of town. I love the idea of having a session the first day I get to town, leaving with the device on and then having a second session my last day in town. I love the signed, sealed envelope too. Creates a barrier against cheating, but you have the key if there was an emergency or if I needed to leave town early. Very cool idea, totally stealing this!

At the foot parties I help host, it isn't uncommon to see men in chastity devices. It is my assumption that they don't wear them every day but only for a couple of hours of fantasy time. There is a lot to say about designated time to live in a fantasy. Not many of us can do it every minute of every day. Enjoy whatever you decide. We've all got to take whatever kink we can get when we can.

Enjoy! Hope it works out well for you.