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#16537 - 02/04/22 07:05 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: langerr]
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Originally Posted By langerr
Another way to measure you how much you can take is "How many days does it take for your ass to heal?" A week? A month?


This is actually more helpful smile

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#16538 - 02/04/22 07:06 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: MikeyRedShoes]
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Originally Posted By MikeyRedShoes
Mistress Tissa, I believe you are the Dominatrix I need to serve. I can travel to Philadelphia at least once a month. You are quite impressive. Heavy humiliation/small penis and cbt, are at the top of my interest list.


Sounds like a match, Mikey. Check out my site if you haven't already. Request a scene maybe 1 - 2 weeks in advance, if you can.

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#16539 - 02/04/22 07:07 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Until I safeword? smile

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#16540 - 02/04/22 07:14 PM Re: tolerance level [Re: slave47]
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Originally Posted By slave47
I need much improvement in my tolerance level. A question for Mistresses and slaves/subs - what is the best way to increase tolerance level? Obviously, it is by doing and experiencing, but do you start with shorter whips and work you way up or just gradually increase the number of lashes and duration? I don't think I can ever handle bull whips, but what is the hierarchy within the whip spectrum? By the way, the longest duration of marks lasting on my butt and back is about 2 weeks.


This reminds me I was writing something about pain for my blog and never finished.

Pain is both physical and psychological. Several factors go into how one "tolerates" pain. Warm ups, desensitization, and various techniques to alter perception.

Go to a Domme who grasps these things and can consciously work with you to help you grow here.

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#16541 - 02/04/22 07:15 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: SlaveGunner]
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Originally Posted By SlaveGunner
Until I safeword? smile


Until you safeword? If you safeword out, I'm still a sadist. I think what you're thinking of is a psychopath. They don't care about your safewords.

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#16543 - 02/05/22 03:33 AM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: Mistress Tissa]
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No...A domme stops when you safeword smile You asked how much I could take...Be pushed to Safeword...I think that is a fair answer

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#16547 - 02/05/22 01:26 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: SlaveGunner]
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Maybe I misunderstand you but being pushed until I safeword is not a good answer when asked how much you can take. Everyone is different and some people will safeword after one hard cane stroke while others will take 50 abd still not safeword.
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And still trying to figure it all out.................. buffalo

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#16548 - 02/05/22 05:55 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: buffalo]
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I agree with you. That's why I suggested a measurable test.

Answering that question truthfully will also let the Domme know you have actually experienced it, not just fanaticized about it.

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#16549 - 02/05/22 06:25 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: SlaveGunner]
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Originally Posted By SlaveGunner
No...A domme stops when you safeword smile You asked how much I could take...Be pushed to Safeword...I think that is a fair answer


Ah, I see. This is the problem with not quoting the question you're answering. And answering a question I thought you already answered. wink

Safewords are meant to be used as an emergency signal, not some method of turning your Dominant into your service top. Their point is to let your partner(s) know something has gone terribly wrong. I don't let my scenes go to that point, so if they were used it would have to be something imperceptible to me. (This has never happened, by the way.) Otherwise, I stop before a safeword is needed.

Have you actually been whipped before?

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#16550 - 02/05/22 06:27 PM Re: Philadelphia Dommes [Re: buffalo]
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Originally Posted By buffalo
Maybe I misunderstand you but being pushed until I safeword is not a good answer when asked how much you can take. Everyone is different and some people will safeword after one hard cane stroke while others will take 50 abd still not safeword.


I agree, buffalo. Approaching a scene where the goal is to get to safeword sounds like someone who isn't experienced.

If someone wants to be pushed to see how much they can take, that is different.

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