I definitely evolved. Foot worship was first, but not a fan of shoe or boot worship. Now I love feet, the smell, being on the floor craving the Mistress’ approval of my work and the whole intimacy of it. I stumbled into being a switch via role play, but by the end of any session I revert back to being a sub. Butt plugs and strap on worship is now something I crave. Never liked it as a young man. I crossed that line with a Mistress who was intersex. Fascinating.

Golden showers… have done it with two Mistresses I knew for years. I crave it only with them. A bit of sipping but mostly feeling her warmth on my torso and groin, being told what a slut I am. And finally public play, in a park, on the waterfront, in a hotel stairway or lobby, and even in parking lots, with the heavy turn on of being discovered. Either very early in the AM or at night.

My fetishes have definitely changed over the years. Ive moved much more into pain than anything else and id describe myself more as a bottom than a submissive or a slave.

The one fetish i have picked up recently that i an really surprised about is ballbusting. But i think i do it a little different. I dont like being ball busted in session. I like it out of session when I'm not expecting it. For example, this past weekend i was in Chicago on vacation with my Domme we woke up she rolled over and punched me right in the balls. The pain was intense. But for whatever reason we both crack up in laughter at the shock and surprise of those completely random unexpected moments. It keeps me on my toes and has definitely become my new kink. Im not sure how i can laugh at such intense pain but we are having a lot of fun with it.

I'm in the camp of those, like you, whose interests have evolved. I've been playing for roughly 40 years and what was once on my never list (golden shower consumption, canes, ass worship) are now on my favorites list. I've slowed down a lot over the years and am dealing with health issues right now that's put play on hold. I keep thinking the itch may go away, but so far, it hasn't gone anywhere, but it has evolved.

From being on MF every day and sessioning often to only dabbling every now and then. Of course I've evolved as everyone else has. I cannot say that I've changed too much in interests and/or widening them. But I did mature to the point that I was no longer embarrassed and came right to the point on things. It makes the familiarization period shorter and leads to a better session.

Like a few other posters here, I've been winding down. Aging a bit with the attendant health concerns. But it's always been about quality in the end.

Yup... Hate it when they go for quantity and it's one 16" strap-on after another...

Asp

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Sorry bcd... Couldn't resist the smartass response

Not a worry. It's all in good fun.