I truly like being dominated by dommes 40+. They tend to go easier on me because I'm significantly younger.. But eventually I find a ruthless cold-hearted, ball-busting, cock-hater. Easier to find a manhater on fetlife than professional setting.

It's my fault for being attracted to them, but I can't help it. TPE, hard repeated kicking, slapping, squeezing, genuinely forced to cum and saw hint of blood on her hand and floor, continued ballbusting AFTER cumming - I felt like I was going to die. Penis-fracture and almost castrated on a "trampling board" sending me to ER, all made me stepped back from the scene years ago.

I trust pro-dommes on domina.ms for my safety, more than fetlife. But my circle had "sadists", female-separatists and female-supremacists and dominants with personal issues of males.

All depends on your circle. You can find gentle dommes or sadistic dommes.

When in doubt, look at her close friends. It reflects her personality.

I have never considered age when choosing a Domme so I've never really analyzed it. However when looking back I was surprised because I don't think I have ever sessioned with a Domme who was older than me at any given time. On the other hand, I have seen many of about the same age.

For those Dommes who I frequent and have a real connection with, I have no upper limit on age. There are more than a few I would love to continue seeing for the rest of our lives, even if that also puts them in their mid-80s or 90s. My lower limit is around 20 but I do put a lot of stock in a few years of experience as a Pro so it's rare I end up playing with someone so young.

For me as a client, I won't stop until I am unable to session so I can't pick a number. Like furfan, some very physically taxing activities may be added to my limits because I can no longer handle them. But its going to take a really long time before I won't be able to do lighter activities such as body worship, non-predicament bondage & humiliating service (cross-dressing, GS, etc...) as examples.

p.s. Sorry to anyone who considers this to be a zombie thread by my posting to it.

I didn't notice this topic when it came up. Like you, I never thought about age when booking a session. I wouldn't want to session with a woman that is my daughter or mother's age. Aside from that, attractiveness, skills, quality of dungeon, interests and the manner in which the Mistress conducts herself in per-session discussions. A few years from my own age, on either side, I wouldn't even think about.

I guess I am conservative but I like zombie threads. I saw so many threads years old much more interesting than most of what I read now. Besides this was less than two months old.

The first domme I met was considerably older, experienced, patient and a great way to start. The second much younger than me and a disaster.

However I think I can safely say that all mistresses I will meet will be younger than me. Heck, I doubt how many mistresses older than me are in the business.

Ahh, DDI. One of the better things to look at in the pre and early Internet days. It said quality with it's sleek photos and ads.

Yea... I've gotten to that age too