I would say 8 inches is large and about what I take. I will give it a try before my next session, maybe in conjunction with some of the other suggestions here.

Thanks I agree anatomy is going to make things different for everyone but that size sounds about right. I can’t just have a dildo lying around the house so I’ve got to figure that end out.

Fully agree. If you get water too far into your bowels, then it will be there most of the day and you'll have accidents during a sessions. You want to evacuate the lower area but not touch the large intestines. I use an enema bag, but I don't kneel or bend over as this allows water to go into the intestines. I'll stand upright and give myself 2 to 3 enemas and then I'm good to go. This works fine for most strap-on play.

If you're going deep and/or fisting that's another story. The above works just as well but if they are pushing past inner sphincter, you want to make sure you're fully evacuated even with the contents of the large intestines. Then you don't want to eat for about 12 hours beforehand and you want to give yourself and deep enema. Then wait 1-2 hours before play so all the water has a chance to drain out.

I will also add to treat yourself to a nice salad the evening before. A little ruffage goes a long way in helping to clear things out.

Agreed.

Please eat a fucking salad ya'll.

LOL.

Actually legumes, berries, and flax seeds have the most fiber.

Absolutely agree. I think guys underestimate how much their ass might smell. It's not just about wiping your hole off, gentlemen. It's about the whole area. Clean immediately inside your hole and the entire length of your crack. Bacteria and sweat hang out there and it doesn't take long for it to get funky. Yes, that includes you guys who might only have to drive like 10 minutes to see your Domme.

You know what delights me? When a guy's ass smells pleasant. Like soap. But, sadly, that's rare.

This reminds me I need to finish my dusty article about anal play.

People often seem to make it sound more complicated than it is. Like lots of prep with multiple steps.

It's really just rinsing a few times. Maybe making one or two different diet changes if you really feel like you want to make the rinsing process as easy as possible.

If you buy a pre-filled douche, remove the solution and replace with tepid water. *Gently* rinse until clear. Don't rocket-shoot it up there. It's not necessary and more likely to go up farther than you need...and then come out during play.

I find that if I'm doing play in the rectum and not going into the sigmoid colon then there is no need for a deep cleanse. Once you've douched a handful of times you should get a sense of how deeply the water is going and when you've gone as far as you need.

Changing your diet isn't necessary but it can facilitate an easier cleanse. Fiber = more solid BMs = less messy rinsing.

I apologize if this seems like a dumb question but I have been tying to get this cleaning out process right for years. Can you say what type of play differentiates play going into just the rectum or going further into the sigmoid colon? Is it the size of the dildo or is it fisting as opposed to dildo play? Or anything else that is not coming to my mind right now?

"years", buffalo? Then you are making it much more complicated than it is.



Because the sigmoid colon is past the rectum it's a matter of depth.