Teddy is into real chastity and you are into chastity fetish play, at best. They are two completely different things.

I always try to incorporate edging and orgasm denial for the sub a few days prior to the session if possible. My email instructions literally say I want them hungry and pliable. You must seriously have a hair trigger if you need to masturbate minutes prior to a session. Be careful in those parking lots

By the way, I don't honor safe words for fears of premature ejaculation. If it happens, it happens. My agenda does not change. However, if a client wants to bail after because he is embarrassed, I let him. Has happened only rarely. Most don't want the party to end just because they couldn't contain themselves.

Yes Mistress Ayn, You know me so well. If it were possible to be locked 100% of the time I would have been pierced and kept permanently locked a few years ago. It is about trust, honor, respect, sometimes being locked but the rest of the time it is about tortuous mental chastity. I do love knowing that part of me no longer belongs to me. It only resides on me. I miss you Dear Mistress Ayn and hope you are well and making lucky subs and slaves cry and beg.

I just get really sexually aroused seeing women with floggers and strapons. it's like porn for me.

Is there a reason why some dommes use a hitachi device on my penis? It feels good. it makes we want to ejaculate. Doesn't seem very dominant.

It depends on how it's used and the attitude of the user I suppose. It's probably not something I would start a session off with unless maybe you were caged, but vibs are great for tease and denial or forced O. If you don't like it or are afraid it will make you leave an unwanted puddle, then communicate that to the Domme pre-session. Vibs also numb some people out and they request they not be used. I don't have an issue with that.

Hi Mistress Ayn, It also takes a lot of regular practice with Mistress and sub/slave and over months we have gotten to the point where she uses it to get me close then on the underside of the clit to get me teetering on the edge and then stops and squeezes it like a milking until the dripping stops. Then again, and again and again until I feel a clit and ball massage meaning the chastity cage is being locked back on and then click. Last time it was coupled with a thrusting dildo and the Tomo prostate massager making sure every drop was milked out. Honestly it has gotten to the point of perfection and total surrender. I cannot wait for you be up here and participate.

Bro, you gotta feel what it feels like to shoot your jizz. You only live once. I am sure you could combine that leaking thing with some intermittent jerking off. Think of how good that would feel. Just do it

It is about respect and commitment I have made. Not a chance I will break my word to my Goddess and be dismissed.

I am sure teddy is old enough to know what "shooting his jizz" feels like. His tastes have matured while yours are still on the juvenile side, which is fine. Not everyone has the same tastes in sessions or lifestyle.

Sounds like you and MM have been having a lot of fun. I have been playing around a lot with ruined orgasms for My boys that are in chastity. I like the idea of giving the prostate some "relief" without causing the cascade of brain chemicals that inhibit submission. A new article on the art of the ruined orgasm is coming to My blog soon. Share it with MM and see what she thinks.