I can only imagine the trauma that a black, indigenous, or person of color would feel just from knowing that a white dominatrix was using a bull whip. Even if most clients are white, the mere existence of such device in a dungeon may cause minority patrons to feel alienated.

We need to be good allies of the black community. Can I get all the white dommes on here to affirm that they will discontinue use of these evil devices?

No.

That being said, If a submissive of mine told me they'd prefer I not have any whips in sight upon entering I would be happy to oblige.



So you're not actually a POC but you're speaking for them? (Though to be honest, I would've guessed that without you telling me.)



So you want to ban what I'd argue is a huge icon of BDSM because you IMAGINE that it offends people?

I'll continue being a ally to POC by listening to them, supporting them, treating them as equals, and not talking like I know what they want.

Edit: Adding to this, if POC started coming out and opened a dialogue about how certain whips were offensive in BDSM and why, then I'd be open to having the conversation.

This has to be a troll post b/c someone actually thinking this is beyond comprehension.

That seems racist for you to assume that. Look at all the statues that are coming down across America. Aunt Jemima is no longer going to be sold. Neither is Uncle Ben's. Whips were used on slaves. I'm trying to help the BDSM community save face at a time when no institution is safe from admitting systemic and inherent racism in their symbols.

We should probably add collars to the list of things that should be banned.

Looks like DJT is back. Admin?

I'm guessing it's Turdburgler!

What a horrible idea! Or what a great sense of humor!

Perhaps you have a personal aversion to whips? Stay out of the butcher shop if you don't like knives!

If a POC comes in for a session they don’t need to be whipped or bull whipped. There’s plenty of other things they can do. Like Domme Lynx said if it does bother them then just put it away. No need to ban whips cause what you might think offend someone.

yeah, but should white clients even be referred to as "slave" going forward? White clients have zero idea the pain and suffering that black persons of color endured over 160 years ago and should not have the term used so casually. It's one thing to be in an air conditioned dungeon for an hour and be able to pay several hundred for a session and an entirely different thing to be on a plantation without pay and working daily in a field and coming home to constant whippings.

We must end all things that may be offensive to black people.