Years ago there was a man who custom made steel chastity devices. To get one, the man had to go to Long Island to be fitted. They very unique in the way that they were not uncomfortable and impossible to get out of. Sadly, he passed away. His family tried to keep the business going but, it wasn't the same without him. I wonder what the best chastity devices out there are these days. For extreme chastity play, I've heard that a double piercing and locking the cock down is fool proof. Once the person is past the healing of the piercings, it is painless and much less distracting then wearing a device. But, I've only heard discussion of this. I haven't known anyone first hand who has done it.

Thanks for sharing this. Your play time sounds hot. Have you ever mixed tease and denial in with extended chastity times?

I agree completely. For years I had a personal slave that had a huge foot fetish. I would wear his chastity key on my ankle bracelet. It drove him nuts.

Yes, insanely hot. Someone was talking about fetishwear in public. Nothing trumps the sight of a little key on a necklace or ankle bracelet. It has a totemic power that exceeds a pair of 8" heels. It says "Right now, I entirely own this person's sex and sexuality. So much so that I am wearing it as a little ornament. Maybe I'll give t back one day. Maybe not..."

Yes. Chastity is never an end in itself. It's the prelude or precondition to whatever mindfuck(s) are intended. Works hand in glove with feminization too. And the tease and denial does not necessarily end with a session. That may only be a period of temporary lock removal. Depends what she thinks you need. Then you go home with those very fresh memories of your Goddess. Her voice, her body, her scent. And absolutely no way of getting relief. You think you were going crazy before...?

Ha! Interesting. I like that description future pet. That paints a vivid picture of how powerful it must feel on the one side and how frustrating and owned it feels on the other end.

That is sooo hot.

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To me it’s a love hate thing. I love the idea of being in a chastity device. I tried it with my lifestyle Domme back in 2000. It was awful painful at night and wasn’t very comfortable when going to the gym. Although back in 2000 there weren’t as many choices of devices back then like now.

Although I did see a pro Domme who made me wear it from the start of a session to the end. The only time it came off in the session was for CBT play. To make it even worst it was pink. I was like “I don’t mind wearing it but pink”? She was like “that’s the only color I have and it looks good on you”. I didn’t complain again after that.

Not really interested in chastity play, but love orgasm control, and I think there's some overlap in the effects. With orgasm control, mistress does tend to allow me to cum less often than I would under my own recognizance, so there's a bit of the "he's more submissive when he doesn't cum" impact, although I only go 7-10 days versus what most chastity players do. I also know I only cum with her permission and whims, so I find myself VERY highly motivated to please her all the time. And lastly, when she does let me cum, I find myself incredibly grateful to her, I mean overwhelmingly grateful, which is like another motivator for appreciation and obedience

I have a boy with a pink device, pink nipple piercings and a pink collar. He is not a sissy. I just use the color to emasculate him. You boys and your aversion to pink.